Skincare Mistakes Most Of You Are Making (…and what to do instead)
on September 25, 2025

Skincare Mistakes Most Of You Are Making (…and what to do instead)

Healthy skin isn’t about a bigger routine, harsher actives, or the priciest serum. It’s about a strong barrier, smart habits, nervous system + mineral support, and consistency. Save this, share it, refer back any time.

 

Table of Contents

  1. Cleansing Basics

  2. Over-Exfoliation & Too Many Actives

  3. SPF & Sun (Balanced, not fearful)

  4. Expectations, Marketing & Mindset

  5. Routine Design & Consistency

  6. Internal Support (gut, minerals, hydration)

  7. Environment (water, light, air, tech)

  8. Treatments, Medspas & Tretinoin

  9. The “Expensive = Better” Trap

 

1) Cleansing Basics

Mistake: Cleansing with cleanser in the morning

Why it’s a mistake: You didn’t accumulate enough oil/oxidized debris overnight to justify a full strip. Over-cleansing chips away at your barrier.
Do this instead: Using a cotton pad or towel, gently wipe your skin using lukewarm filtered water, then go straight into your am skincare routine.

Mistake: “Sometimes” not washing your face at night

Why: SPF, makeup, sweat, and pollution sit on the skin and clog, irritate, and block everything you apply next.
Do instead: Non-negotiable PM, double cleanse every night.

Mistake: Not double cleansing (i.e., not cleansing properly)

Why: One wash rarely removes all SPF/makeup fully; residue = congestion + dullness.
Do instead: Oil cleanse (mine is coming soon) → then follow with a good cleanser.

My favorite cleansers are:

Deep Clean Detox Cleanser

Adaptogenic Cleanser

Mistake: Using toners 

Why: Many are fragranced/active-heavy and can irritate + strip your skin’s microbiome.
Do instead: Use hydrating peptide mists that actually support your skin & enhance your skincare benefits. 

My favorites mists are: 

Blue Peptide Spray

Boost Peptide Mist

Mistake: Hot water + rough towels

Why: Heat + friction = irritation.
Do instead: Lukewarm water, clean cotton towels

Mistake: Washing your face in the shower

Why: Showers are a barrier trap—too hot, too harsh, too messy.

  • Heat + steam swell the skin and spike transepidermal water loss, leaving you tight, red, and reactive.

  • Water pressure + long exposure over-strips natural oils.

  • Hard water minerals/chlorine deposit on skin and irritate.

  • Hair + body product runoff (fragrance, silicones, sulfates) ends up on your face.

Do this instead: At night only, cleanse at the sink, not in the shower. Oil cleanse + 60 second cleanse with lukewarm filtered water.

 

2) Over-Exfoliation & Too Many Actives

Mistake: Over-exfoliating

Why: Daily acids, scrubs, peels, and gadgets stack irritation and thin your barrier.
Do instead: Exfoliate 1–2×/month max when your skin is calm. If you’re inflamed, pause.

My favorite gentle exfoliants: 

Polish MD Enzyme Exfoliant

Nia Polish 

Mistake: Using too many things at once

Why: You can’t tell what’s helping vs. hurting & confusing to your skin

Do instead: Introduce one new product every 2–3 months and patch test.

Mistake: Starting an advanced routine too young

Why: Aggressive actives on resilient young skin is unnecessary.
Do instead: Focus on the basics: cleanse well, hydrate, feed your barrier, smart sun.

 

3) SPF & Sun 

Mistake: Using conventional chemical SPF 

Why: Toxic, chemical SPF = more sun damage, not protection.
Do instead: Use mineral-based SPF & prioritize shade, hats, timing of day

My favorite SPF: 

Bio Shield SPF

Mistake: Relying only on the SPF in your makeup

Why: You’ll rarely apply enough to get enough protection.
Do instead: Use sunscreen (mineral) for real protection; makeup SPF = bonus.

Mistake: Believing the sun is “bad” for your skin

Why: Smart exposure is part of whole-body health. Burns & time spent in direct sun are the issue.
Do instead:
Build tolerance gradually, avoid peak hours (Example: 12, 1, 2, 3pm), do not spend more that 20 mins max at a time in direct sun (even less for the face, neck and chest)  See more on my blog post about healthy sun exposure:  Responsible vs Irresponsible Sun Exposure Blog

 

4) Expectations, Marketing & Mindset

Mistake: Wanting instant gratification

Why: Collagen + barrier repair take 8–12 weeks minimum.
Do instead: Commit to a simple routine and judge results by months & years, not days.

Mistake: Not having realistic expectations / believing “anti-aging” hype

Why: Skincare can slow the clock, not erase time.
Do instead: It’s normal to age, it’s normal (and beautiful) to have wrinkles. Work on what is in your control and not chasing youth.

Mistake: Believing everything you see on social media

Why: Filters, sponsorships, and influencer marketing can distract you from reality.
Do instead: Follow practitioners who have real experience and are honest & transparent.  Not just a walking paid ad.

Mistake: “Clean products transforming your skin”

Why: “Clean” is a marketing term, not a performance metric.
Do instead: Strength matters when you want results. Well-formulated, high performance products are what move the needle - beef fat tallow skincare that claims it’s botox in a bottle isn't cutting it - I wish. You can find all of my favorite HIGH PERFORMANCE & PROFESSIONAL NON TOXIC skincare here: Jamie's Favorite Products

Mistake: Thinking “expensive” = better results

Why: Price doesn't always mean it will work for you - (yes this even includes my skincare)
Do instead: Invest in foundations before worrying about anything else (great cleanser, one active serum & balancing moisturizer).  Here’s a budget friendly routine you can start with:

Cleanser:

Gentle cleanser

Serum:

Replenish Antioxidant Serum - $$

-or-

Rescue Epidermal Repair Serum - $$$$

Moisturizer:

Quench Nourishing Moisturizer

 

5) Routine Consistency

Mistake: Switching products constantly

Why: Your skin never adapts; you can’t track what works.
Do instead: Stay consistent for 6 months to a year (yes a year). Results are cumulative - they don’t happen overnight.

Mistake: Copying someone else’s routine

Why: Different barrier, environment, hormones, genetics, etc.
Do instead: Personalize. Start minimal, then tailor.  This is always why I recommend a 1:1 consultation: 1:1 Skincare Consultation

Mistake: Not protecting your barrier

Why: Too many actives, stripping cleansers, harsh treatments = chronic redness/dryness.
Do instead: Think long game — build a strong, resilient barrier first. Actives are the icing, not the cake. 

Start with either of these barrier repairing serums:

Bio Barrier Repair Serum

Rescue Epidermal Repair Serum

Mistake: Skipping moisturizer because you’re “oily”

Why: Dry/Dehydrated skin overproduces oil.
Do instead: Use a light, balancing moisturizer. 

My favorite moisturizers:

Youth Daily V2 Moisturizer

C.A.R.E. Moisturizer

Quench Nourishing Moisturizer

Immerse Nourishing Facial Oil

 

6) Internal Support (gut, minerals, hydration)

Mistake: Relying on skincare to “fix” acne

Why: Acne is often tied to gut, diet, stress, blood sugar, and hormones.
Do instead: Support internally: animal based diet, mineral-rich hydration (salt + magnesium), nervous system care, sunlight in the morning, quality sleep.

Mistake: Not supporting your skin internally (minerals/hydration)

Why: “Dry/dewy struggle” is often a mineral + water issue, not just moisturizer.
Do instead: Daily supplements, electrolytes/quality salt, and real water intake alongside healthy fats (grass fed butter, avocado, coconut oil).

 

7) Environment (water, light, air, tech)

Mistake: Ignoring your environment (hard water, blue light, air quality, EMFs)

Why: Hard water leaves residue; poor air and circadian disruption show up on skin.
Do instead: Shower filter, air filters, morning sunlight, reduce late-night screens, consider a gentle humidifier in dry seasons.

Find my water & air filter recommendations here:  Low Tox Home Shop

Mistake: Not washing pillowcases/brushes often

Why: Bacteria + oil transfer back to skin.
Do instead: Wash pillowcases at minimum once a week & makeup brushes weekly.

 

8) Dermatologists, Med Spas & Tretinoin

Mistake: Trusting dermatologists blindly

Why: Derms treat conditions, not the whole person. Their default is prescriptions/procedures (antibiotics, steroids, tretinoin) that chase symptoms, come with side effects, and ignore nutrition, gut health, minerals, toxin load, and environment.

Do this instead: Keep a derm for medical checks.  Heal your skin from the inside out by getting internal testing done at least once a year and working with a qualified functional medicine practitioner and skincare specialist that can optimize your health and skin from the inside out.  We offer internal testing and functional medicine packages - click here to explore:  Internal Testing + Functional Medicine Packages

Mistake: Chemically peeling your skin 

Why: Burning/peeling your skin = barrier damage, inflamed, sensitive, thin, weak skin.
Do instead: Prioritize supporting your barrier and use products that will work with your skin to create turnover and strengthen your skin.

Mistake: Expecting skincare to replace Botox/fillers or lift your face

Why: Topicals CAN NOT recreate structural changes.
Do instead: Use skincare to optimize skin quality; if you choose procedures, I would recommend a surgery over injections that are toxic (botox) and will never leave your body (fillers).

Mistake: Using tretinoin/Retin-A 

Why: I never recommend these. They weaken and damage the skin barrier, trigger chronic irritation and inflammation, and add to the body’s toxic burden.

Do this instead: Use gentle, yet effective naturally derived retinoids like retinaldehydes or bio-retinol.

My favorite retinals/retinols:

Renew MD Advanced Retinal Serum (member's only)

Correct Preventative Retinal Serum

Correct MD Preventative Retinal Serum (member's only)

Bio Retinol Serum

 

9) The “Expensive = Better” Trap (and other mindset slips)

  • Skincare hoarding / product collecting: Stop confusing your skin. Curate.

  • Chasing perfection: Perfect skin doesn’t exist, healthy skin does.

 

How to Build a Simple, Effective Routine (example routine)

AM:

  1. Lukewarm rinse

  2. Barrier supporting serum

  3. Balancing moisturizer

  4. Smart sun (mineral SPF when needed; hats/shade; timing)

PM:

  1. 1st oil cleanse, 2nd use a cleanser and cleanse skin for 60 seconds

  2. Targeted serum (for your skin type)

  3. Moisturizer (heavier at night if you’re dry)

  4. Optional: Hydrating mask, eye serum

Internal Daily Basics: clean animal based diet, mineral-rich hydration, morning light, nervous system regulation, sleep.

 

Quick FAQs: 

“How long until I see results?”
6 months - years for meaningful change. Commit, be consistent, have realistic expectations

“Which is ‘better’: clean or non toxic clinical?”
Most clean products = better ingredients, little change. Non toxic professional grade = stronger, more advanced, proven results.

“Can I just use SPF in my makeup?”
Not as your main protection.

“Do I need a toner?”
No.

 

Last Note:

You don’t need more, you need support. Build a healthy barrier, nourish from the inside, respect the sun, and be consistent. That’s how you earn real results that last.

 

xo, 

Jamie